"White people who practice so-called 'ethical' non-monogamy but still treat black women like trading cards are merely taking advantage of the perceived freedom these relationships afford them."
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Polyamory pundit Andre Shakti is here to help you love responsibly....
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"Is there a stereotype threat at play, where queer women don't want to have these discussions for fear that straight people will laugh and say 'told you so' at our attempts to exist outside of their society?"...
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"Once we start trying to regulate how people love one another we’re no better than those who oppress us."...
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Quean For A Day: The Love, Lust, & Longing of a Lesbian Cuck
by Jetta Rae"It isn’t a compromise or some minor league of sexuality that I’ve been demoted to—it makes space for my idioms and nervosa to, not just be accounted for, but actively engaged. "... -
It starts with my values. What I treasure, what I seek, and what I know about myself....
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Andre answers the questions of a spouse struggling with distrust for her sex worker metamour and a poly meetup organizer trying to understand cuckolding fetish....
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"Have we reached a place in society where the perfect couple isn’t a couple anymore?"...
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"The more forthcoming you are about your supposed 'red flags', the more confident and self-possessed you appear, and the less likely it is that someone will try to take that part of you and weaponize it."...
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"At best I felt guilty, like I was betraying my queer femmeness by dating, not only a guy, but someone who was pretty damn close to 'The Man'. At worst, when we kissed in public, people looked at him with pity, like I had tricked him."...
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Today's "I'm Poly & So Can You" gives you three times the wisdom, as Andre's polycule weigh in on questions about dental dams and not sharing your experiences with other partners....
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In this installment of "I'm Poly & So Can You", Andre helps someone navigate approaching their aggressively jealous partner....
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Polyamory also allowed me to spread emotional risk. Long time practitioners of polyamory would be appalled by this--they call it the 'training wheels' mentality and it objectifies others. They're right. It does. And I did....
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"While there is a correlation between constant, honest communication and healthy, sustainable relationships, we need to be very cautious about seeing non-monogamy as some kind of superior, enlightened state."...
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In this week's "I'm Poly & So Can You", Andre answers a letter from a woman whose boyfriend is being a little too aggressive towards her trans girlfriend....