"To conflate coerced marriages and consensual arranged marriages isn’t just ignorant–it’s harmfully disingenuous."
relationships
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"I know all too well that bottoming is not passive; even when we are touched against our will, it takes every fiber of one's being to receive, or to not receive, psychically or physically."...
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"Once we start trying to regulate how people love one another we’re no better than those who oppress us."...
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"While SW/SW relationships are connective, therapeutic forces to be reckoned with, they’re just as undeserving of glamorization as the sex industry itself."...
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"Have we reached a place in society where the perfect couple isn’t a couple anymore?"...
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"The more forthcoming you are about your supposed 'red flags', the more confident and self-possessed you appear, and the less likely it is that someone will try to take that part of you and weaponize it."...
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Today's "I'm Poly & So Can You" gives you three times the wisdom, as Andre's polycule weigh in on questions about dental dams and not sharing your experiences with other partners....
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In this installment of "I'm Poly & So Can You", Andre helps someone navigate approaching their aggressively jealous partner....
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"While there is a correlation between constant, honest communication and healthy, sustainable relationships, we need to be very cautious about seeing non-monogamy as some kind of superior, enlightened state."...