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• When Your Boyfriend Tries To "Bro Out" With Your Girlfriend

  by Andre Shakti

  In this week's "I'm Poly & So Can You", Andre answers a letter from a woman whose boyfriend is being a little too aggressive towards her trans girlfriend.

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• Do Polyamorous People Process Attachment Differently?

  by Andre Shakti

  "While there is a correlation between constant, honest communication and healthy, sustainable relationships, ​​we need to be very cautious about seeing non-monogamy as some kind of superior, enlightened state."

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• When Do You Let Jealousy End A Non-Monogamous Relationship?

  by Andre Shakti

  In this installment of "I'm Poly & So Can You", Andre helps someone navigate approaching their aggressively jealous partner.

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• Is "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" Non-Monogamy Ever Sustainable?

  by Andre Shakti

  Today's "I'm Poly & So Can You" gives you three times the wisdom, as Andre's polycule weigh in on questions about dental dams and not sharing your experiences with other partners.

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• I'm Poly & So Can You: How Do I Disclose On A 1st Date?

  by Andre Shakti

  "The more forthcoming you are about your supposed 'red flags', the more confident and self-possessed you appear, and the less likely it is that someone will try to take that part of you and weaponize it."

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• I'm Poly & So Can You: Cuck My Life Into Pieces

  WPh

  by Andre Shakti

  Andre answers the questions of a spouse struggling with distrust for her sex worker metamour and a poly meetup organizer trying to understand cuckolding fetish.

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• True HoMance: When Sex Workers Date Each Other

  by Andre Shakti

  "While SW/SW relationships are connective, therapeutic forces to be reckoned with, they’re just as undeserving of glamorization as the sex industry itself."

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