"I am not femme because I am a woman, rather, I am femme because I am a feminist who is self-empowered to express herself and make choices according to her personal preferences."
femmephobia
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"Is there a stereotype threat at play, where queer women don't want to have these discussions for fear that straight people will laugh and say 'told you so' at our attempts to exist outside of their society?"...