Harlot Media Gumroad Store Up! Three New Zines Available!
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What else would you use a 1” wooden dowel for but to create a spreader bar?...
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It's worth it to look for something better for you....
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And so I plunge, pointing my finger in the direction / of a dead lightbulb. Instead I draw a house. It always / starts off like a dream, then a broken doll. The ceiling....
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"Those like myself, who enter law school in the hopes of getting our hands on some of the tools of our oppressors in order to flip them on themselves, try to get in and get out without calling too much attention to ourselves."...
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- sex work
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- mental health
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- racism
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- transphobia
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Kay Gabriel presents a critical and studious critique of The Antioch Review's "“The Sacred Androgen: The Transgender Debate."...
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Zach Ozma reviews the latest from Vetch. Their second issue finds trans poetry "arriving but have not arrived," tugged between poetry and the identity politics that have come to dominate much of trans discourse....
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An Interview How2Wrestling's Hunk Connoisseur Joanna Graham
The How2Wrestling co-host talks about media representation, biscuits, and mansplaining.... -
Kate Schapira's Epistles to a Sickened World
"You live here with us all the time. / You are the shape of the air in our house. / You don't need me to explain yourself to you, / bitter, fragrant, leaking a little sewer gas on / your way home, who could blame you."... -
In this week's "I'm Poly & So Can You", Andre answers a letter from a woman whose boyfriend is being a little too aggressive towards her trans girlfriend....
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Talking Trans Erotica with Tobi Hill-Meyer
"When every story is about how incredibly hot people have incredible sex together with incredible orgasms, it becomes flat."... -
Polyamory also allowed me to spread emotional risk. Long time practitioners of polyamory would be appalled by this--they call it the 'training wheels' mentality and it objectifies others. They're right. It does. And I did....
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Listen: Some of My Best Friends Are Named Becky
An open letter to Beckys (Beckies?) everywhere from two Black femmes.... -
Ginger Ko's Poetry Explores Race, Intimacy, Poverty
"How / do I decide / whether it is / important that I / run my fingernail / down my thigh, / to watch the little / trail of white / before my brownness / fills back in?"... -
An Indian in the Wild, or, Decolonizing The Jungle Book
"Any Indian reader who fails to distance themselves from this makes of themselves another jungle spectacle, to be observed, to be entertained by, but never to be taken seriously."... -
"Lemonade" Takes Life's Lemons And Makes A Black Girl's Song
"With a strong army and lyrical war cry in her arsenal, Beyoncé most literally sings us a black girl’s song."... -
Recording Casual Violence and the Banality of Evil
"A genre of sorts has arisen around capturing the spectacle of violence on film—and doing nothing about the actual violence as a bystander."... -
"Joanie Laurer, aka Chyna, changed the world. Not just wrestling, but the world as as it pertained to those who had a chance to see her, to exist in a time and society that observed and reacted to her existence."...
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"Seeing a trans girl who struggled with being seen as a woman having her womanhood validated? Why’d I like that so much? I was very, very misinformed."...
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"The circumstances surrounding Death-Witch's death are that she was alone on a road, & a person saw what she looked like & decided to kill her. I guess that's all it takes."...
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Why I Left My Child
"I'm an introvert. A writer. A thinker. And differently abled. I need a certain amount of time to myself, alone, or I begin to wear thin. And now I've committed the ultimate sin. I left my child behind."... -
Alleluia! The Devil's Carnival is About Queer Femme Revenge
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I am generation X. Unlike many other X-ers, I get to educate myself in modern day millennial culture and feminism. But that’s only because it's my work....
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Solidarity and Inclusive Dick Jokes: Meet Girldick Hosting
"Solidarity between trans women here and elsewhere is important. We're also in a big fight here for nonbinary recognition at the moment, which is obviously quite important to many of us."... -
"While there is a correlation between constant, honest communication and healthy, sustainable relationships, we need to be very cautious about seeing non-monogamy as some kind of superior, enlightened state."...
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"I'm just…" he stalled, looking down at his hands, "having a hard time dating someone who used to be a stripper."...
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"I swear to God I'll stop talking about sexy barbarians and wizards any minute now."...
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"A knife only has to stab you once to wound."...
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People like me. Who never wanted children. Who only took fertility drugs to ease the symptoms caused by the debilitating endometriosis, PCOS, and PMDD so that I could actually keep a job for more than a few months....
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"When I am 'nice,' I am not listened to. I have learned to be precise, driven, and forceful in my interactions with white women to accomplish the simple feat of being heard; pleasantness is a luxury I cannot afford."...
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How And Why To Talk With Your Children About Pubic Hair
I have pursued the conventional path of trying out many different hairstyles, the zigzag, the strip, the heart and the balding chicken (aka. the Brazilian)... -
In this installment of "I'm Poly & So Can You", Andre helps someone navigate approaching their aggressively jealous partner....
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NXT Superstar Austin Aries invited men to call me slurs and compare me to Cait Jenner for two days because I said I wanted to see him take moonsaults on TV instead of Vine....
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"You can’t convince a trans child not to be trans without hurting them."...